N1 Degree and Emphasis
~て敵わない: meaning, usage and examples
~て敵わない means: unbearably... / can't stand...
How to form it
<Verb て-form> + かなわない / <い-adj stem> + くて + かなわない / <な-adj> + で + かなわない
Examples
隣の部屋が毎晩うるさくて、敵わない。
The next room is so noisy every night, I can't stand it.
こんなに暑くては、かなわない。
It's unbearably hot.
梅雨の時期は、じめじめしてかなわない。
During the rainy season, the humidity is unbearable.
毎晩遅くまで残業させられては、かなわない。
Being made to work late every night is more than I can take.
When to use it
Says a situation is so unpleasant that the speaker cannot bear it. Common with heat, noise, cold, and being made to do something (~させられてはかなわない). Example: 毎日こう寒くてはかなわない (I cannot take it being this cold every day). Often written in kana: かなわない.
Nuance
Conversational and a little old-fashioned, with a complaining tone. It expresses the speaker's own discomfort, so it is not used for other people's feelings without らしい or そうだ. Usually about physical or ongoing discomfort.
Compare
~てたまらない is for strong feelings or desires, positive or negative: 会いたくてたまらない. ~てしょうがない is similar and casual. ~てかなわない is only for things the speaker cannot stand: うるさくてかなわない. You would not say 会いたくてかなわない.
Tip: Use かなわない only for annoyance or suffering. For longing or desire (会いたい, 欲しい), use たまらない instead.
More in Degree and Emphasis
- ~極まりない: extremely... / exceedingly...
- ~ことこの上ない: extremely... / the height of...
- ~の至り: the height of... / extremely (formal)
- ~の極み: the height of... / the ultimate...
- ~といったらない / ~といったらありゃしない: extremely... / so... (colloquial, often negative)
- ~にもほどがある: too... / ...has its limits / to an unacceptable degree
- ~にも増して: even more than... / above all...
- ~とは比べものにならない: cannot be compared with... / incomparable to...
- ~きっての: the best... / the... -est (in a group)
- ~をおいて他にない: there is no... other than... / ...is the only one
Frequently asked questions
What does ~て敵わない mean?
Unbearably... / can't stand.... Example: 隣の部屋が毎晩うるさくて、敵わない。 (The next room is so noisy every night, I can't stand it.)
How do you form ~て敵わない?
<Verb て-form> + かなわない / <い-adj stem> + くて + かなわない / <な-adj> + で + かなわない. Use かなわない only for annoyance or suffering. For longing or desire (会いたい, 欲しい), use たまらない instead.