N4 Honorific Expressions
尊敬語: meaning, usage and examples
尊敬語 means: Respectful expressions.
How to form it
お + <Verb ます-stem> + になる (帰る -> お帰りになる) / <Verb passive form> (書く -> 書かれる) / special verbs: いらっしゃる, おっしゃる, 召し上がる, ご覧になる, なさる, くださる
Examples
社長はもうお帰りになりました。
The president has already gone home.
先生、お飲みになりますか。
Teacher, would you like to drink?
先生は何時ごろお戻りになりますか。
Around what time will the teacher be back?
部長はもうお昼を召し上がりましたか。
Has the manager already had lunch?
When to use it
Use 尊敬語 (respectful language) to talk about the actions or states of someone above you: a customer, a teacher, your boss, an older stranger. It raises the other person. 社長はもうお帰りになりました means "The president has already gone home." Use it both when speaking to that person and when speaking about them.
Nuance
Special verbs replace the regular pattern when they exist: say いらっしゃる, not お行きになる. The passive-form version (読まれる) is lighter and common in business writing, but it can be confused with a real passive. する verbs often use ご + noun + になる or なさる (ご利用になる).
Compare
尊敬語 raises the other person's action; 謙譲語 lowers your own: 先生がお読みになる (the teacher reads) vs 私がお読みします (I will read it for you). Both are different from plain polite ます forms, which are polite but show no special respect: 先生が読みます.
Tip: Never use 尊敬語 for your own actions, even when you want to sound very polite. 私はいらっしゃいます is wrong; say 私は参ります or 私はおります.
More on this in Japanese keigo: polite, respectful and humble speech.
More in Honorific Expressions
- 敬語: honorific expressions
- 謙譲語: Humble expressions
- ~てさしあげる/~てくださる/~ていただく: Receiving, Giving honorific
- [使役形]ていただけませんか: Would you please let me do...?
Frequently asked questions
What does 尊敬語 mean?
Respectful expressions. Example: 社長はもうお帰りになりました。 (The president has already gone home.)
How do you form 尊敬語?
お + <Verb ます-stem> + になる (帰る -> お帰りになる) / <Verb passive form> (書く -> 書かれる) / special verbs: いらっしゃる, おっしゃる, 召し上がる, ご覧になる, なさる, くださる. Never use 尊敬語 for your own actions, even when you want to sound very polite. 私はいらっしゃいます is wrong; say 私は参ります or 私はおります.